I’m Upset

What is it for?

Small hurts happen. Instead of saying “Nothing’s wrong”, gently show how you feel and why.

Making up is something you both confirm together.

1. Say how you feel

How to use it:

Choose your mood:

• Not hurt, just a little down
• A little upset
• Moderately upset, I need some time
• Upset, I don’t want to talk right now
• Very hurt
• Now it’s your turn to think, I’m really angry

Add a short reason if you wish and send it.

What your partner sees:

A notification and a home-screen notice show your mood. Your selected level and message appear in the feature itself.

2. Your partner replies

They can react with:

• I understand
• I support you
• I’m sorry
• I like it
• I love you ❤️

They can also write a short reply. Both appear on your screen.

Only you can change your own upset level, using “Less upset” or “More upset”. Changes are shared immediately.

3. Ask “Are you upset?”

Send a gentle question instead of guessing.

Your partner sees an invitation inside the app to share how they feel.

• “No, just a little down”: You both know where you stand.
• “Yes”: They choose a level and reason and send them to you.

4. Making up 🤝

One person taps “We’ve made up”.

The other is asked whether they feel the same way.

• Yes: Both are notified and the upset ends.
• Not yet: The upset remains active.

Making up is never decided by one person alone.

5. Your statistics 📊

See who has been upset more often, how long upsets lasted on average and the most common levels.

It is a playful look back, rather than a serious judgement of your relationship.